Benefit
Boundary game
Red Flag or Green Flag
Sort dating and relationship scenarios into green flag, conversation, or red flag.
6-10 min1-2 playersFree previewLive
Playable preview
Compare your instincts around effort, repair, honesty, attention, and emotional safety.
Scenario cardsSolo or couple playStandards without a lecture
6-10 min
1-2 players
Ready when you are
Open the full-screen game stage.
Game stage
Play without the page getting in the way.
The game opens in a focused full-screen stage. The guide, FAQ, and related links stay here for later.
How to play
Start fast. Talk after the choice.
The game is designed to create a useful moment quickly. Choose first, then use the answer as a softer way into the real topic.
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Read one scenario at a time.
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Choose the answer that fits your first instinct.
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Use the result as a conversation starter, not a verdict.
Benefit
Two-person conversation
Benefit
Result summary
Example prompts
A quick look at the deck.
They apologize quickly, but repeat the same behavior every week.
They remember a small detail you mentioned once and follow up later.
They joke about being jealous whenever you see friends.
They say they are busy but offer a specific time to reconnect.
Why play this
What is Red Flag or Green Flag?
Red Flag or Green Flag is a short relationship game built around relationship scenarios, boundaries, and dating instincts. It gives you a contained way to compare instincts, name a preference, or start a conversation without turning the moment into a heavy talk.
How to use it well
Answer quickly first, then explain slowly. The useful part is usually not the choice itself; it is the reason behind the choice and the new information you learn about each other.
When to play
Use this game on a date night, during a quiet couch night, or when a relationship topic keeps circling without a clean starting point. Keep it light, but do not ignore a real boundary if one appears.
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FAQ
Is Red Flag or Green Flag free to play?+
Yes. This version is playable as a free preview with no login, payment, or credit tracking.
Can couples play together?+
Yes. Most rounds work best when both people answer first, then compare why they chose that option.
Is this relationship advice?+
No. It is a conversation game. Use it to notice patterns and start a calmer conversation, not to diagnose a partner.
Can I replay it?+
Yes. Use the restart button on the result screen to clear the current run and play again.